My H is also rude a lot to me on the phone when he is with the ow. It's like they are trying to prove to the ow that they don't care about us anymore. I am sure the ow get a thrill off of it too because they are so insecure.
I do hope your d5 is feeling better. My boys just got over being sick. Sometimes it's nice to sit home all day in your jammies and watch tv and be lazy.
