I went looking for my thread, which I hadn't posted on since about 12/21 and it was locked! But that's sort of good timing cause it was titled "What to do with a fencesitter". I really think H is off the fence, but...
For the past 2 months, I would have bet a million bucks he was but for the past week or so, he seems secretive again. It could be nothing, but for some reason, I am really paranoid. He was in a really FOUL mood Wednesday night and really blew up at D14 in a way I've never seen him do.
I'm an idiot for thinking these things. I have no proof, except that he took money out at a bank machine a few nights ago in a town where he used to go with OW (and get hotel rooms). Other than that, he's been home -- at least at night after work when I am. He has erratic work hours so who knows what he does during the day!