You know what blindsided, I'm learning to enjoy those things without feeling the other side of the loss. I realized that today when I looked at my S. Every day in my prayers I thank God for them. They are truly blessings and every moment I get with them is precious (even the ones where she's mad at me for calling in the soother fairy!). J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out