Hey Jenny, this must be the down period for us new and soon to be Moms. I read about Mom of 2 and wow. I'm worried to see what she has to tell. But, it sounds like she's okay right now. I know that you are struggling right now, too. I'm sorry. I'm sad for all of us that are here fighting for our marriages and feeling let down. I totally get what you are saying about the forgiving thing. One of my biggest things with H, also is the fact that he didn't even try. Our first baby, we worked soooo hard for her and he bails out on us. And, runs to the first woman that would take him in. And, instead of being a father to his own child, he pretends to be a father to hers. Keep praying, that's all I seem to know how to do. I keep thinking that if I do it enough with a lot of conviction, He will answer my prayers. The story about your D and the soother is really sweet. It makes me look forward to my baby girl. I'm sad that her Daddy won't be here to experience those things, too. I'm sad for her.


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him