I have a fear of what's happening to you too. H has taken care of D3 here at home, but never bathed her, taken her to the Dr. (well, 1 time), ......and never just attended to her general needs.
Sorry he's being a pain in the behind.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day