Hi Frank, Just a note to say that I am thinking of you. Your words of strength and confidence have helped so many of us to realize that strength and confidence also lies within us. I am glad that you have come full circle and see that in yourself again.
Best wishes, SD
Thank you SD. It's sometimes hard to keep 'letting her go' and being 'nice' is also hard because it's getting positive reactions from her, which make me hopeful.
But she's still on the 'divorce train' and still has her 'special friend'.
I wish our marriage didn't have to end, but it can't continue the way it has and even though I can change myself I can't change her.
Sometimes I think about what my life is going to be like in a year from now. Hopefully by then all this will have passed and I'll be free again to be me instead of being who I think she wants me to be.
My kids will always love me, which is always a good thing.
