Helloooo...Smoother Ride....Where Are You???

[SueS]

Something is wrong! I was just leaving from getting my hair cut and saw that H had called twice from his cell phone. Now he isn't supposed to get off until 7:00 and he called me shortly before 6:00. When I did call him, he sounded odd but I thought it was just because of a bad connection. He asked if I wanted to go out, me assuming it was to grab something to eat. I had asked him early today what he might want to do for dinner. No answer, no calls today. No problem for me. I got home and H got home shortly after me. H is drunk! He brought home a 6-pack, opened one and is now passed out on the couch. I looked at his phone. He'd tried to call me, then OW & then one of his 20 something friends. I'm afraid he's lost his job.

His phone rang and I debated answering it. I did. It was one of his 20-something friends. The only one that I 1/2 way like. He was nice and I told him I'd let Steve know he called. He said, let him know it's my b-day on Monday. I said, Oh, Happy B-day, how old will you be? 22!!! He stammered to tell me. He said, well, pretty young......22. I said, Oh, well have a good b-day, I'll tell him you called. Now I've talked to this kid before on the phone. Always nice. This time, nice, but very, very hesitant about talking to me. Probably wondering why H's wife is actually answering his phone.

I will NOT wake H up. If I do that, it will just push him to go out.

Should I answer if OW calls back???

SueS


.........Just called H's answering machine at work. It said he'd be out of the office on Feb. 8th!!!!!!! WTH????