I see that you have already met my husband (IC)...Big hugs to you, not only for your struggles but for my husband posting to you {he means well...and just trys to bring a smile}
I'm going to read up on the story of Supermom but judging by what I have read so far, you really are a supermom and a wonderful person. I know you have probably heard this over and over, but you are so strong.
I'll try to keep IC in line but if you need to, smack him around a little...it's ok