I reading but I'm no good on the legal stuff. hope you doing ok though.
Lan, Thanks for stopping by. Let's focus on emotional for now. I phoned W an hour ago about me taking S7 to cub scout breakfast tomorrow. I could not tell if the legal stuff has hit her or not; damn lawyers seem to be acting on their own. The kids go to W this PM for an entire week. I sent some old magazines and calendars thru' S7 as W wanted them for some art work so I told her about this too. And that was all the conversation. I feel stuck in neutral and its very frustrating. Any leads would be appreciated.
On a slightly different note I wanted to ask you Lan (or anyone else for that matter) how handle parenting conflicts? Our styles/values differ a lot and that has led to major conflict. For example W is a spender and very materialistic and I'm the opposite - this could be complimentary if there's a lot of love. But we fought over these sorts of things for years. Anyway now the kids are still in the middle of this and will be for some time to come D or not. The school C told me that in my house I make the rules; however the kids carry messages back and forth and some of this stuff is relevant to DBing (180's, etc.). I could let go a bit for peace sake and detach (for example W buys a huge TV but does not pay school fees, gives D11 lots of spending money, etc). But I can't be what I'm not or adopt bad/inconsistent values.
