She's Gone - No Contact

[MichelleLT]

Hey, was reading up on your stitch and thought I'd say hi. While there are a lot of religious and spiritual people on here, one of the appeals of DB was that it was not written by some religious nut-job who started their relationship book with "you should fight for your marriage because you took a vow before God". As is the case with life, you will meet all sorts of people on here. But you should never feel the need to hide things because they are mostly non-judgmental, supportive, wonderful people.

As for apologizing, did she respond in any way to your text? You may do better by staying no contact and waiting for her to contact you. I don't know if you have horses, but my mental analogy for DBing is similar to skittish horses. You have to leave them be, turn your back on them even (but leave the possibility of reconciling open), but do something fun that makes them curious, and they will come over to look. Don't know if that makes sense, but I'm a big animal person and it made me laugh when I thought of my husband as a horse.

Your apologizing is your "more of the same" behavior from what I can tell. If that's the case, you may want to do something different. Whether that's a very distant "sorry if my text upset you" or just not saying anything at all.