Hi I am new to this so here goes: I found out my H was having an affair with a much younger single co-worker. I was completely devastated. H does not want a divorce but acts indifferent toward me and unremorseful. It has been a year now and I feel like I am in limbo. I don't want a D but want to reconnect with my H. It appears he is having a MLC. We have 2 teenagers and we are all so sad angry and frustrated by H behavior. He claims he is no longer having an affair but I can't trust him now which is causing a great deal of problems. HELP! me 45, H49 M17yrs. Still together but not doing well. OW waiting in the wings I'm sure.
