Quote: He is doing what his father did..following the script of his childhood;;his father left and hardly ever saw kids again I find this so interesting. I seriously wonder if there is something genetic (hormonal) or is this just learned behavior. My H's parents split when their kids left for college too. Some people learn from their parents mistakes and others seem to follow in their footsteps.
Maybe this is why my H won't leave. His parents were together until the end. In fact my FIL literally died of a broken heart 15 months after my MIL passed away.
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