Yeah, I would just introduce him by his name. That is if he even goes. H never did like being in crowds where he felt like everybody knew each other and he didn't know anybody. He is social and he is very good at making people feel comfortable...but not in situations where he is the 'newcomer'. I may also decide that I don't want him to come...right now that is my 'safe' place where no one really asks me anything about H or what is going on and I can kind of forget about everything for a little while.