Yoyo, I am learning that I can control my emotions. I am also starting to realize what my triggers are and I am working on controlling my emotions before reacting. I used to be really reactive, I'm doing much better. I am really happy with my changes. I do feel different. I truly care about my H and want to make him happy. I will be focusing on him this weekend, without smothering, and I don't have any expectations.


LuvMyHusband
Me: 41
H: 43
ch: 3
M: 7+ T: 10+
Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07
Seperated: 9/07
H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008
Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA