Tired and giving up

[LuvMyHusband]

thanks everyone. Your words of encouragement mean alot. Last night I spoke to him for a few minutes, S13's birthday is the 21st. My H is not planning on being here and wants to celebrate early. Of course when I ask him why he can't make it (he's not working so doesn't have any conflicts), he gets hostile and irritated because I asked. He ended up hanging up on me.

Anyway, I sent him a text and said that nothing he does or says is going to take away from my changes. That I have changed alot, I have a loving heart and have had other people notice and tell me what a beautiful caring heart I have.

He called me and started questioning me about this. I calmly and quietly responded with that he has free agency, he can either choose to view me as I used to be or accept that I am not the same person, that I am better. I could tell he was not sure how to handle this about me. He tried to get a little argumentive. I did not fall into it. I calmly said "have a safe drive, be careful, the kids and I have some nice things planned for you and I'll see you tomorrow.

Please note that this is the first time he has voluntarily called me in months! He did say that he was not judging me, that he knew I was making changes and that he never said I wasn't a loving person. I didn't comment.