How do I begin piecing??

[MichelleLT]

I second the TGIF (although I have my national guard drill this weekend so I do have to work...but that also means I have a Dungeons & Dragons game to look forward to tomorrow night, plus pizza and beer :-D)

Hmm, interesting debate. The simplest solution seems to introduce him by his name. If the person asks how you know each other, let him answer. But only you know if that will work with your H. He may crave the security/love of being introduced as your H again.

He may wonder why they don't know you're married, but considering the D nearly finalized, it should be fairly obvious - you thought you weren't going to be for long. If he asks, you can either say "I don't know them that well" or "I thought I would be D soon".

This stuck me as applying to both our stitches.

From reading these MLC threads, you should be seeing that "they" are running, and they think they are running from you, but they are really running from themselves. But they don't understand that (some never will) so they run from what they can run from, and blame the easiest target. It't certainly can't be their fault that they are not happy, so it must be your fault. And they run.