My wife's affair is over (for now, and hopefully for good). She is sincere about working on our marriage, and things are as good as possible considering the situation. All contact with the OM has been severed, however, we live in the same city, and given all the mediums these days for secret contact its still all too easy for re-contact to be made.
I am not naive however, and feel that she naturally will be going through a withdrawal period. The other man, i'm assuming, is still in love with her and will try to contact her. When he does I believe it is possible she will be tempted to stray again.
Again, what if I find out in a month that contact is being made between the two of them. Or ideally, should he try to contact my wife, and she is honest with me and tells me that he tried to contact her, what do I do?
What if she tells me that she is beginning to miss the other man? What do i do then?
I'm also looking just for general advice, I suppose, in this most crucial phase during the days and weeks following the ending of the affair.
