what hurts the most that after 7yrs she won't even give us a chance to make things better. now everything is out on the table. she is being all about her right now. all her friends are singel and that all she wants to do is go out and run around. text me last night and told me that we had to do something with the kids because she blew last night and could have beat them. i text her back and asked what she wanted me to do. i haven't had any problems with my kids i treat them they same as i did when i was home with them. the listen to me fine. she was always a push over with them and now it's biting her in the rear. what i've been saying sounds like i probably better off with out her but i just care for her so much... she's wierd i had to go to court today and she text me and told me goodluck and to call her when i'm done to let her know how it went. so i did and all she wanted to do was bite my head off about it.. i just want to give up. she said she doesn't want a d and wants her space and all this garbage but she keeps saying that she can't fall back in love the statistics prove it can't happen and this and that. i know i would be better off without her and happy but i just can't give up on her i care for her to much