I guess my mantra now is "do what's right, for the right reason and let the cards fall where they will".
A good mantra to have. If we do what we feel is right, and our motives are pure, then all will turn out as it should. We are all on a life's train journey, and sometimes we are just not at the same station (and, sometimes, some of us are stuck on the tracks), so we can misunderstand one another. Perhaps, that's what happened in your, and my sitch.
Take care, Phoenix!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim