We have discussed it a few times, and he seems undecided about it. He gives lame reasons as to why he hasn't moved out and really only that he thinks he will have more money after we divorce which obviously isn't true b/c our income will be almost half. Or he will ask me if I want him to move out and he knows full well that I will say no b/c I don't want him to. So I really don't think he wants to move out, but if I asked him to to or ordered him out he might go then as a matter of pride or maybe he wouldn't go just to thwart me b/c he's a control freak so I don't know what would happen actually. Do you think I should ask him to?
Btw, our discussions of him moving out and the nice things he's been doing for me, the way we've been getting along: laughing and joking all the time and lots of eye contact btw, I think I have been getting some mixed signals from him. Then afterwards, esp. after we have been getting along really well or he did those nice things is right when he will do something outrageous like text the OW in front of me (he says so I won't have hope that we aren't getting a divorce) and now the weekend trip after we have had a wonderful week together. When he told me about the trip he said, I'm going away for the weekend with her because we are going to be getting divorced; almost like he is doing this to convince me, but I am starting to think more and more that maybe he is actually trying to convince himself about the divorce and not me! Do you think that could be right or that is something I just want to be seeing? Please be honest; I can take it (you know I can!) Karen43
