Michael - I think that was a GREAT post. Especially this part:
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I'm not saying your personality is pushing your wife away! I'm saying that you may need to instill the same PMA you show on this board into your daily interactions with your wife.
This is SO true. H - I feel sometimes like you've got that PMA going with everyone EXCEPT your W. I know that feeling too. You're all happy and upbeat and then you see your W and take it down a notch (or more, depending on her mood). I tend to feel myself do the same thing at times.. I feel this transition from "happy upbeat" to "walking on eggshells." I am a lot happier and my H seems a lot more drawn to me if I KEEP that "happy upbeat" around him, but it's sometimes hard to do. I get the feeling that may be the case for you also.
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When she said "I think the dog needs to go out." I would have said "You're the one at the computer, see if you can find him a date."
Would it have gotten her into the sack with me? Hell no. She would probably grin instead of laugh (it's not very funny at all) but making a stupid/smart ass comment like that may be better than simply saying 'ok' and walking away.
Well it made me laugh hard enough that I was wishing I didn't have water in my mouth at the time.. so ya never know!
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As "Bad" as it may sound me going to Vegas It is just a place I will be sleeping. I am planning on visiting allot of places. (NO Casino’s). Ghost towns, museums, tattoo pallor, the only way I would accept a lap dance is if YOYO, Saffie, LWB, Mattie, Josie, Luv, NikB, Tal, Sues, trying, Root would show up at my door... (Ya I wish)
I REALLY don't think we'd all fit on your lap at once..
Hey did you check out Valley of Fire at all? (did I mention it to you before?) It's an easy drive from Vegas and it is really neat!! Never seen anyplace like it before.
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Virgo August 23 - September 22 Maybe you want to spend the 1st and 2nd dancing all night long. Maybe you can't because you have to spend the weekend helping your Great Aunt Millie move apartments. Maybe that's the way the cookie crumbles. Don't get mad -- get a good night's sleep and plan to go out dancing later in the month.
OK in light of the "lap dance" comment - did you make this up??
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread