Link to previous thread.
Well, for those who have been following the adventures of the intrepid Minkerman, things appear to have taken a turn for (I hope) the better.

To catch up, we have been separated 5 weeks, and plan to stay that way for at least another 6...so we are about halfway between separating and making a decision on our future as a couple.

Yesterday, she emailed me and said she would like to accompany me to a wine-tasting event that I had previously registered for. I took this as a good sign, as I had invited her 2 weeks ago and she had declined.

Well - we went, had an awesome time, ate, drank and laughed. Later, in the car, she said "I don't think you and I are done yet", and I said I was happy to hear that.

Then we got to her place, and she invited me up. Uh-oh....

Long story short, we ML for about 3 hours and she asked me to spend the night, which I did. it was so nice to spoon again and feel her breathing next to me.

Based on how the previous 5 weeks have been going, this is a bit of a step forward \:\)

I know, I know - she will probably panic now, and pull back. But I think these are all positive signs. More to come (I hope). Wish us luck.


Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!