How do I begin piecing??

[MichelleLT]

Yeah, well, I'm in the same boat as far as having OW hang out with us one day and then leaving them alone for a few hours, and bam. I definitely kick myself for leaving the house, but whatever. While my H didn't have the balls to leave without someone to run to for comfort, there was an underlying problem and she is mostly a symptom, not a cause.

Besides, in the long run, your M may be much stronger and more open, so everything happens for a reason right?

Finally, you encouraging him to follow his dreams and supporting him is one of the things I am sure he loves about you. It'll pay off in the long run.