ok guys... not to much to report... H has been ok, a little on edge.. still trying to nail down some work, and is a bit stressed.."tried to help him there"

But I did do something I wouldn't normally do.. got my hair cut.. now of course I get it trimmed, but I let her but long layers in it..OMG.. this was a big step for me, as my hair is like my security blanket.. but Im happy with it.. H loves it.. I have farrah Facett hair now..hehe.. When I straightened it looks a little more tame.

With everything Ive been through I felt some impowerment (sp?) to change something that was big for me....

trying to plan for our trip, I just don't want to get my hopes up that everything will go smoothly with him...

tal

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.