Finding my way out of the dark

[mishka422]

Can't reach my lawyer. She's in court and her assistant is filing papers at the courthouses. Aren't there laws in place to protect LBS that say something to the effect of them not being permitted to significantly change the living style (or something similar) of their child? There are no agreements of any kind in place yet (too short a time) but he is under this impression that all the bills are now mine and he can just walk away and leave them and start over. That isn't true is it? The credit cards are in my name but they are marital debt according to the state of GA and his income was used to get the cards. He had cards on two of them as well which he doesn't have anymore. It's not like I even told him he had to pay into utilities or the rent (even though I think he's supposed to since his name is on the lease) just what he owes me for the bill he ran up and half of the costs for S13's karate and his portion of the car insurance. What the heck? Why is he refusing to do anything.

I'm sorry, I'm going on and on. Trying to stay out of panic mode, lots of prayer being done over here.

Anyone have any advice. What happened in your situations? I know all states are different but getting input would really help me to be more prepared.

Thanks!