Here I go again...

[SueS]

Racer-

It's nice that you and your H had a great time and that you have plans together again and that you're going to see a C.

I know you may feel that you're being hammered a bit by us on this board, but I guess some of us don't understand some things. You said that you would end things with the OM this week and now you're saying it will be done by the end of next week. That you won't put it off longer than that. Why not end it now? Get it over with. Maybe I'm wrong for saying this, but being the W of a WAS who is still involved in an A, it's hard for me to understand your justification for not ending it and your standing up for the OM. It actually makes me mad for your H. I'm not trying to 100% back your H, as he had a part in the issues in your M, but there is NO REASON for an A. Please, just end it NOW. You said yourself that you can't fully work on your M until it's over. Please, end it.

My best wishes are truly with you and your H that things get back on track and you're able to mend and rebuild your M. I give you credit for coming on here and admitting your A. It's not an easy thing to come into the Lion's Den where most of us have been deeply hurt by A's. You're further than a lot of our S's are. I hope you aren't too offended by some of my comments. As I said, it's hard being the one who has been hurt this deeply. Again, my wishes, thoughts and prayers go out to you and your H.

SueS