Oh yeah, that is what I started talking about, isn't it? I forgot.
(1)Usually. There have been times when I didn't think I could get there, typically because it's late and I'm concerned about getting up in the morning and getting S4 out to school. If it's the weekend, I can get into the mood.
(2)Yes. I've noticed a shift in how I feel after sex. I usually feel more bonded and close afterwards than I used to feel. I also have noticed that after cac and I have had words about something I actually want to get the close feeling back by having sex. Basically, "makeup" sex was not part of our R. Lately, I find that it's what I want to feel close again, assuming I have been able to talk about my feelings first. Even if I don't feel completely satisfied with our "talk," I still crave physical contact. Simply put, I am starting to feel loved through PT with my husband.
