He is doing what his father did..following the script of his childhood;;his father left and hardly ever saw kids again
I find this so interesting. I seriously wonder if there is something genetic (hormonal) or is this just learned behavior. My H's parents split when their kids left for college too. Some people learn from their parents mistakes and others seem to follow in their footsteps.
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went to C she is helping me finish the grief work I am stuck 3/4 way Hardest for me to give up the idea of our family -the 4 of us now it is 3 of us -but it is healthier than before I need to finish processing this loss, so I will know what to do next
Wow...my C doesn't talk about anything like this. I go and talk about H and then we just talk about what he is going through. Then he makes a suggestion on trying to get my H to move forward. I am wondering why I still go to him. Your C sounds like she is really working with you...I feel like my C is helping me understand my H and then trying to work on my H through me...if that makes sense. I like the way your C is working with you.
