OM does have his issues but is not all THAT bad. I don't want to defend him in any way, honestly we all have our own problems, and reasons why we do things. That is what make the world go around.
Now update, I still have not had THE TALK with OM about not seeing him anymore. Why not looking forward to the unpleasentness of it all I guess. But I will have it done by next week, and no I will not take it out another week, I can't keep pretending all is good there.
But now on to better things...H and I went to the concert on Tuesday night it was AWSOME, and we had a really good time. Even though SIL tagged along. Then this upcoming Thursday, Valentine's Day we have tickets to yet another concert, these tickets we won. But we are planning on heading out to dinner before hand and then the concert. So we are doing things together but obviously there are still some things that we need to work out.
H finally got us an appt for C. That is on the 20th earliest that we could get in. So in reality I do have a cut off date for OM, I don't want him to be in the immedaiate picutre when we go. Another thing that my C said that I should do is to take the lead, bring the problems that I have to the talble first, because H is still not quite sure what went wrong.
I will type more later H is coming to get me for lunch.