Steve,

Originally Posted By: steve477
Ok well I did it! I told my wife I would let her go, and I told off her engagement ring. I told her that I dont want her or me to be unhappy, so I hoped this would relieve some of the stress that had built up between us.


Steve,

That's a very brave move on your part and I can only commend you as it sounds as though you handled it well.

All you can do is be that friend for W that I've been telling you to be. I think now the pressure is off you'll start to have more fruitful discussions with W.

I think you're going in the right direction now.


Lan


Me:50
W: 49
T:20yrs
M: 14 yrs
D:11
2005 PA
2006: EA (2003 : 2007)
2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate
2008: Feb Piecing
2009 Limbo
2011: Separated (same house)
2013: Divorcing