Ok well I did it! I told my wife I would let her go, and I told off her engagement ring. I told her that I dont want her or me to be unhappy, so I hoped this would relieve some of the stress that had built up between us.
Steve,
That's a very brave move on your part and I can only commend you as it sounds as though you handled it well.
All you can do is be that friend for W that I've been telling you to be. I think now the pressure is off you'll start to have more fruitful discussions with W.
I think you're going in the right direction now.
Lan
Me:50 W: 49 T:20yrs M: 14 yrs D:11 2005 PA 2006: EA (2003 : 2007) 2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate 2008: Feb Piecing 2009 Limbo 2011: Separated (same house) 2013: Divorcing