quite happy about myself doing my own little 180. Anyone have any input? Did I do the right thing? Do I need to not seem to be actively looking for somewhere else to live or just take it easy for a week or so before launching into searationville?
Last night my wife was apologising for her part in the M breakdown, and saying things like she cant forgive herself for cheating, that she is the weakest of the weak. (Still texts and emails the OM mind you). She said that I am a wonderful person and she hopes that I can find someone to make me happy (already have that thanks). She hopes that we can move on from this and be happy (seapately she means)
But for now, I have taken some of the pressure out of the M and some of the pressure off me to fix it, hopefully she might step up to the plate and think things though.

Any advice would be great!

Steve

Me 27
W 30
M 2yrs/ T 5yrs
Expecting our first child Sept 08
warning bomb (has feelings for someone) 21/12/08
I found out about OM (by snooping) 14/1/08
Living together.