I tend to do the same thing with my H. It has been easier for me with the distance and lack of communication because I am not as tempted. I fear I will face the same problems if we ever start spending more time together though. I think that might be an important dynamic to change though.
I'm glad you had a good night. :-)
Sleep well.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2