I read these posts and it just amazes me how mean and cruel and hurtful these H's can be. It seems like they are hurting about something and they want to make us feel some of it. Through heated discussions my H lets things slip that have bothered him over the years, but he never said(like me being in school). Anyway, JF you don't deserve this. None of us deserve this, but I feel like you really don't beacause you have gone out of your way to make the best of this sitch. You let him take the kids,you try to be pleasant when you should really just rip his freaking eyes out. You are much are stronger and more tolerant than me that is for sure. Keep up your DB. I really do think he is hurting and angry and is trying to make you feel some of the pain. He is acting out for a reason. Telling you her name was not needed. Just keep in mind that you are looking at a very sick person. Treat him the way you treat a person who has an illness. Understand that he is not in his right mind. Let it roll of your back and continue to plow ahead. Keep on doing what you do and I do believe you will see results. Won't be soon, but I believe in my heart things will work out.
