Hey OF, Big Tuna, and everyone else,

I'm just checking in. I really have nothing to report except that the ex is still sending me e-mails about pettily stuff.

I'm keeping busy with work and trying to make the next grade. I'm striving for a promotion this year.

On a personal note, I'm hanging in there. I'm still visiting with girlfriends and family members. My co-workers are great. They keep telling me to stop wearing any ring on my wedding finger so that I can attract a man! I tell them that I'm not ready to have a man. I'm actually enjoying my freedom. I purchased some hypnosis CDs that I listen to everynight. I don't know if they are working but I tell you what...I'm sleeping like a baby at night.

Also, I'm thinking about selling some jewelry...2 engagement rings. Does anyone know of a reputable jeweler that I can sell my diamonds to?

Let me know how you all are doing.

All my best,
alamogirl


Me - 48 (at time of 1st bomb)
H - 43
married - 16 Jul 94
no children
1st bomb - (said he was leaving) - 3 Jun 06
2nd bomb (said he was ready to file) - 10 Nov 06
H filed divorce - 17 Nov 06
Divorce finalized - 20 Jul 07