Hey B, I took mine off the day of the bomb and never put them back on. Mine were thrown across the coffee table though...not placed. Do what you feel is right.
But I would try to avoid asking your W what is going on. I don't think she knows. Just let her do what seems to be coming naturally without pressuring her to define it. At least not for a little while, it's only been two days.
Yeah it's confusing...but isn't confusion better than really know sometimes?
For what it's worth, I think she DOES think she made the worst mistake of her life the other night. I think she was expecting a totally different reaction from you that what you gave her and it made her think.
Good sign she's wearing a ring on that finger. I think most girls take that finger very seriously...uhh, let me explain that! That finger of mine was always bare until there was an engagement ring on it...it's there to say, I'm taken. But just this chicks opinion! J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out
