Hope I can empathise with what you said in your last post b/c I suspect my H is doing the same. Unlike you I don't have the 'proof' but I think the one things our WAS forgets is that when you have lived with someone for the best part of 20years that just b/c you are apart you don't stop knowing how they think and feel. Admittedly it gets harder as the length of separation goes on but I don't think that kind of intuition ever goes away completely.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15