Your post and Jeanette's and Lissie's made me realize these are women who went through this.
and it is so similar.
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BTW..My XH said it all to me. I was a gold-digger..I would get nothing..he had no money and the best he could do was what he was offerring me. Well, I realized that wasn't true. The judge forced him to pay more and he has been paying it!
This is exact to what my H has been screaming. EXACT!
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It is so hard to fight for financial support and not feel bad at the same time. But, once I depersonalized it AND remembered this was not what I wanted in the first place, it was easier to handle
That is me. I honestly care for the man and do not want to hurt him..DUH!!!
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I almost settled when XH said to me he needed a D to rethink our R again. He needed the closure. Had I settled, I would not be in my home any longer, I would not have been able to finish school, etc.
The same exact responses from him. Is it all phony???
Iy is so difficult. I have weighed my options and feel I have made the right decision for myself.
