I don't think that I mentioned it in my previous posts, but when she told me it was over Tuesday night I took my ring off and put it on the table. I haven't worn it since. I don't know if I should put it back on now or what. I think that I may wait and see if she starts wearing hers consistently.
Even when things were really bad, I never took my ring off - It's a really personal decision. Sounds like you took it off out of hurt and anger, rather than because you were really 'done'.
I wouldn't follow her lead as far as rings go - You never know; She might not wear her's because she noticed you're not wearing your's.