Hi, I have seen my H twice in 2 years, apart from court a few months ago, he didn't look at me once on that occasion, we have a son with Medical problems, I pass on info but H doesn't respond, he has just begun to contact the eldest S19, but only superficial talk, he doesn't reveal anything, we don't know where he is, or who with, he holidays often we don't know who with, it all feels cruel. He filed but is dragging his feet. He is living a fulfilled life, just not with us. Yes it is frustrating and it is beginning to hurt again. I don't know anyone who is dealing with a spouse like H.
