Originally Posted By: KerryK
I too was disturbed by my W's lawyer trying to take over and negotiate everything with my lawyer. I have talked my W into seeing a 3rd party mediator/lawyer. It should save a boat load of money and should keep us amicable during and after the D.
Thanks Kerry, I considered this much earlier on but W was very hostile. She is less hostile now but still almost as stubborn and unreasonable in her expectations, claims and assumptions. So I'm not sure if a mediator will have much success - the court mediator gave up when the issue of custody came up for mediation. Its probably the same reason why MC did not work either. Let me know how mediation goes for you. Meanwhile I'm stuck in limbo on all fronts but have been trying my best at DBing for whatever its worth at this point.


Me-48, W-38
M14, D11, S7
W filed D 01/07
W had to move out 06/07
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