JOHN210(should I stay or should I go)

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... make sure the counselor is one who believes in marriage restoration and finding solutions. My H and I went to a very bad counselor who pronounced our M dead and my H believed her. Beware of BAD counselors, but a Christian counselor might be the ticket.

Good point! I had the exact thing happen to me and it made me wary of these people. Its like going to a doctor that will give you up for dead. There are a LOT of "counselors" and more bad ones than good. And even among the good ones very few focus on saving the marriage.