Doing the opposite of what you normally have done will get attention.
It's your B Day too. Man I am sorry, the pain of what she more than likely will not do is something you are just going to have to suck up and prepare yourself to be dissappointed.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK