I am also amazed how the MLC-WAW's say and do so many similar things. Although not divorced (for now I have decided to let her take it from here and file if she wants out), I can empathize with many of the comments on this thread. Thanks to everyone for posting.
Me: 48 Ex-W: 45 M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93 Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06 OM Separated: mid-Feb '07 Divorced mid-July '08 One daughter - 28 XW living w/OM
