I must admit I resent your generalization a bit. Like most of the people here on this board, you have been on the receiving end of a lot of emotional abuse at this point. However, that is more about miserable people acting out at those closest to them and is not about gender at all.
In my case, despite the fact that my H was helping to put me through law school, he is the one having the A and threatening to D me. Plus, I am the one who took out lots of students loans, which his name is not on, and which I will have to pay off all ALONE.
I'm a bit curious why, instead of living on a student budget, you agreed to spend money on a maid, a nanny, and on eating out.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2