Steve the paper basically says that what is going on is that she is going through hormonal changes that are making her crave OM. Much like we dealt with when we were in our early twenties. She doesn't know why she feels that way so she is blaming you. Mine used the excuse that I played darts to much! WTF! You know that is not a reason to kill a marriage, but they don't understand their feelings and have been taught that they should be faithful so their body is working againist their mind.
My wife and I had a pretty 'open' sex life and she would make mention of having fantasies of other men. She didn't act on them till she had her affair. She told me that her intention in having the affair was a one time thing, but she got wrapped up in the emotions of it. She did not understand that it was a chemical thing and I believe that she thinks that is what love is. That is why I got the 'ILYBIANILWY'. She can't tell the difference.
Me 38 Her 31 Daughter 3
Dated 5 yrs Married 7 PA Bomb 7/26/07 Sep 1 9/1/07 Sep 2 1/5/08
