Oh man, I've brewed my own,tasted many styles, and I've settled on IPA as my favorite. Hoppier the better. My current,and all time favorite, is Avery IPA, from Boulder, Colorado. Have you tried it? What brewery did you work for and what did you do for them? Facinating.
Luckily for me, and something you can look forward to, wine tastes good to me again,and I enjoy a glass or 3. Funny how some people like to drink when they are depressed, and some don't.
MM, this wine tasting will be a good time for you to practice. Detach. Don't try to impress her, try to be there, in the moment, for you. She doesn't get to judge if you succeeded or not, or if you've changed, or if you're in anyway "good enough". You get to decide for yourself. Don't fall into the trap of trying to impress her.
How did you do it when you were dating (I know, I don't remember either)? Dress nice, shave, shined shoes to impress your date, Wife, but be detached. If she, your date, doesn't work out, oh well. You had a good time anyway.
Rooting for you.
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