TODAY I RECEIVED CONFIRMATION THAT H KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT HE IS
DOING.

MLCer maybe, but a cruel one at that, he is a bitter, control freak. H started D proceedings and is doing his upmost to make it the most costly proceedure ever.
He must be receiving some advice, because he is an intelligent man, he knows this is not the way to do things, so he must have his reasons, he is out for the kill, he wants to take it all, he doesn't care about me or either of his sons, he is prepared to take everything away from us all.
He is not providing information ordered by the court, and apparently it wont matter, I am frightened, in his mind I deserve all this.