Lanzo, I wonder how the evening was for your W, even when she fell asleep? Did she feel connected to you?
I'm curious what your expectations are regarding what a nice evening together would be. It seems like this should be out in the open. You two are watching TV together, but you would like more to happen.
Your W used to withhold sex? Is withhold the correct term?
It doesn't seem fair that she would make preparations for a sexual encounter and not follow-thru and be nonchalant about it the next day, without trying to make it up to you. I don't understand why it would take her two weeks for the next sexual encounter.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
