No Expectations 4

[newnamenewlife]

I've been thinking about this too and how much we are enabling them to run by DBing.

This thought hit home for me too in MC yesterday. The C asked H what would need to happen for him to actually move out and he said "I would have to know that W was on an even keel."

So he WANTS to make sure I'm in good shape before he leaves, for the kids' sake. I have been very steady in general lately. I know this doesn't mean I should fall apart so he will stay--but me GAL is what my H wants to see so that he can leave feeling less guilty.