Good plan. A Very good plan. The one with the boys.
Get a B Day card for her and sign it. Nothing mushy, or overly sentimental, a friendly one, with a simple signature, and do not give it to her. But keep it handy. Maybe even a small gift card to a book store of coffe shop.
IF she mentions that you didn't get her anything pull it out and give it to her, saying that you wanted to give her space, and weren't planning on it unless she said something.
Otherwise do not give it to her.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
